Saturday, August 21, 2010

Im 14 and i need some advice about this guy who keeps asking me to hang out?

okay well im 14 and hes 16 and i already know he likes me %26amp; i kind of like him too %26amp; he always asks me to hang out like at night %26amp; im a virgin %26amp; hes not %26amp; people keep telling me that hes gonna try to use me for sex. do you think i should hang out with him. or should i tell him no. because im not ready to have sex yet especially since i havent even known him that long and hes not even my boyfriend.Im 14 and i need some advice about this guy who keeps asking me to hang out?
Be very careful with this guy. If the people telling you he'll use you for sex know him better than you do, get away from him. 16 is a little old for a 14-year-old. It's okay to hang out with him if he treats you well, but always make sure that some of your friends are around--not just his friends. Tell him you're not ready to have sex and make sure he knows you mean it. You sound like a very smart young lady!Im 14 and i need some advice about this guy who keeps asking me to hang out?
HANG OUT WITH HIM, DAMN IT!!!!!! Don't miss out on this opportunity. When you're thirty, you'll kill to get someone who even likes you a TENNY bit.
tell him if he really wants to hang out with you them it needs to be in a group setting like you and he with other friends. or at the mall or maybe dennys. that way you can get to know him and find out what he expects from you.
say NO


The worst thing that could happen is u falling pregnent and that wouldnt b good when ur 14, who cares if hes ready and wants 2 hav sex with u, ull know when ur ready 2 hav sex


till than just keep sayin no


my girlfriend understood that i didnt feel ';ready'; and just let it go and if he doesnt understand that he doesnt know what life actually is


however this is ur call
I wouldn't hang with him because i bet he will try to use you for sex. But if you feel you really need to, its quit simple; DONT HAVE SEX WITH THE GUY.
Good question, well I'm 22 and I was 16 once and had a girlfriend of 15. We dated forever before we finally took it to the next level. Its good to wait that long. If you want to hang out with him and can trust yourself that you won't let him try anything, then go ahead, you'll see his intentions within the first hour or so. You need to find out if he's for real or a player. I'd pick a place that didn't put you in a situation to be alone! Most guys will lose interest very quickly if thats all they're interested in.
Well as you say your not ready so you can hang out but tell him no if he wants anything more than kissing be upfront and tell him how you feel next time you two hang out.
You already know on the inside what the truth is. This boy is after one thing and one thing only and you know what that is. I believe that at your age you should be discussing this with you parents. here you will get advice, but not always the truth. You are too young to be having sex in the first place. Sex is being used today as a form of recreation. Please be smart my child and do not give into peer preasure as many do.Remember that for every choice there is a consequence

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