What can i do about this guy, advice please?

so there is this guy, im not sure that i like him but im pretty sure he likes me, he is my friend and i really like him as a friend nothing more but i don麓t think he is getting that point, he hugs me he holds my hand or at least tries cause i really don麓t let him, he stole a kiss from me, but i don麓t want anything, i just got out of a 3 year relationship, what do i do? i want advice please help, thanksWhat can i do about this guy, advice please?
Just tell him the truth. It's the best way to get the point across.What can i do about this guy, advice please?
You speak to him and let him know what's really going on. You can try telling him something like this, '; Listen you are a very nice person ans lately I have noticed that you did XYZ and I am not interested, I just see you as a friend and I would like you better in that way. I just came out of a three year relationship and I am still healing from that, and the last thing I am looking for is another relationship to patch up my wounds. I'm sorry, but I don't want you to have the wrong impressions about me feeling you in that way, however, I would still like to continue a friendship with you';. That soundspretty clear and precise to me. Always emphasize friendship and don't use the word i don't think. Speak as if you know exactly what you don't want from hima nd he we understand where you are coming from. And if he doesn't understand that then that would mean that he doesn't understands much of anything and that would leave for you to distance yourself from him as a friend.
well i would lay it all on the table, if you don't then he will keep thinking he has a chance. But be careful because he might be the one you were looking for all along. I didn't like my fiance and it was kinda the same situation. But in the end she was the one for me b/c we were such good friends. But if your sure tell him now before it gets more weird
well since hes a good friend you dont really want to risk that, cause it will all turn out doolally.


you get enough attention off him anyway. and if u dont like him your only going to hurt him then get no attention


maybe you should get out more. and find someone your likely to like and speand time with


or jus mess with but not hurt them?


hope this helped
tell him how you feel. Tell him that you really like just being friends and that you don't want a committed relationship right now because you have just ended a 3 year relationship. After you have this talk he should get the hint
I would say something like...





I know this guy who likes me but I don't want to be with anyone, no matter who they are. I'm just not ready.





Make it about ';someone else';...that way if he doesn't like you...or does, he won't be embarrassed.
next time he tries to hold your hand or something, say you arent interested. talk about a ';boyfriend'; around or to him.





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I think that you just need to sit down with him and tell him that he is not your type. Dont be mean about it but be truthful.
Tell him how you feel, is not fair keeping him in the dark.
you should just tell the guy that you cant be more than friends.


that he needs to accept it. give it time
tell him how u feel keep it simple! and maybe later on whos knows...