Looking for advice about Internet relationship?

I met this guy online back in Jan neither one of us were looking just playing pool in Feb we started talking on the phone alot He told me up front he is married and I am living with my B/F but we have since fall in love we talk about everything several times a day and have agreed to get togeher in the near future we live far apart but since march me and my b/f are now apart and I am moving back to my family which is alot closer to my phone guy and out of the blue yesturday first phone call 7am he says he is scared that I am able to move our relationship to the next level and he isnt yet but he loves me and wants to be with me and has plans on leaving his wife in the future because I refuse to be the Mistress when i get close enough well the rest of the days calls went fine with all the sweet things he normally has to say to me he tells me he loves me and cant wait to be with me. But I am really confussed and have many doubts what should I do I really do love him %26amp; ithink he loves metoLooking for advice about Internet relationship?
i think hes fooling you.Looking for advice about Internet relationship?
He thinks he loves you, but he's probably just using you so he doesn't have to deal with his marriage -- which he isn't willing to ditch because it offers security. 95% of time, the man won't leave his wife. Believe that. You can do better.

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What is wrong with people who decide that they can meet and fall in love when someone is married or in a committed relationship??? Did you not realize what type of man he is if he had all this time on the net talking with you instead of paying attention to his family??????? Goodness get your pride back//
think about it now that you have move closer , he cant say you are to far apart to meet, now he wont leave his wife for you ,if he is acting this way when now you can meet
For starters you should not be in a relationship with anyone who is married!!! turn the tables and see how you would feel if you were the wife and your husband was sneaking around behind your back..He has to or had to love her at one point to be married to her....The chances of him leaving his wife for someone else are slim, or he would have done it before now!!! The grass isnt always greener on the other side.
once a cheater always a cheater. whos to say he wont cheat on you too. what are going to do?, take away his computer too? get out now before you destroy others peoples lives and yours.





heres some more advice.


chat rooms = wrecked,screwed up lives.





ok not all but the romance ones or relationship chat rooms do.