Can anyone give me advice about relationship counselling?

Has anyone been to relationship counselling? If so, do you feel you gained anything from it? Would like comments from men and women, thanks.Can anyone give me advice about relationship counselling?
Yes I have twice as a couple and once as a family.





Even though we have always had what I consider a strong marriage. Every marriage has an issue or two where it helps to get outside counselling.





It helped me because the counselor was able to be objective where neither of us could be. Even if I was wrong on an issue it was much easier to hear it from someone else than from my wife. And if I was right on an issue it was likewise easier for my wife to hear it from a third party.





Also it gave us some organization and an agenda to the issues we needed to work on.





It is important that you find someone you both feel comfortable with. That might mean talking to someone and moving on if either one of you does not feel comfortable talking with that person.Can anyone give me advice about relationship counselling?
I have been married over 40 yrs. have been to counseling by my self and with my husband.


By my self I did manage to open my eyes which every one was trying do for 35 yrs.


Five years ago we went as a couple and it made me realize what I was in and still am in due to personal reasons. we were told if you do not participate besides the conversation than you are waisting your money and time.


Do Not get me wrong about going even if it is one or several times it will make you think even if you do not follow all the way through.


Some can work on things and follow it through and some work on it but cannot follow it through for what ever the reason may be.


Than you have the ones who's never try because they never care about them self or the other person.


But again that is their choice, later for there is always later the help will come to cont. and follow through.


I always wanted to have a several people to start a club as in friends are there like the old movie called ';The fist wive club:'; where Goldie Hawn was in it and the other two actress which at this time is a slip of the tongue.


But that would take dedication of so many to help so many and help are self's
i did counciling yes...didnt help me at the time...but has helped me now.





even if it doesnt help with the marriage side of things it will help you with your own lifes questions of what you want out of life and help you work out if your marriage is worth saving or not.





good luck
I have been to counceling. The one thing my ex and I agreed on is the first councelor we went to was a quack. The second one was better. You need to feel out the councelor to see if the advice they are giving makes sense and works for you.
Nope. I solve my own problems. When the ex cheated, I kicked his *** out and divcorced him. And the problem was solved and it didn't cost me one red cent to have someone tell me what I should do.