The guy I like asked me for advice about the girl he likes.. except its no me... What do i do?

I want the best for him. but it hurts me soo much to hear him talk about this girl.The guy I like asked me for advice about the girl he likes.. except its no me... What do i do?
this is a crucial situation....but i think if u really luv him u wud help him out get his love....coz..da main point is to see him happy....rite? Because if at this point u try to attract him towards u...then it might not work da way u want it to be...i mean it wont be all that stable....coz at this point he wants tht other girl....help him out...let him know tht u r a true friend and inside...u know tht u r a true lover....Well, love is all about sacrifiies here and der...n i mean true love...and trust me if ur love is true den it will definetly come baq to u.....trust me...and if he comes baq to u....n comes to know tht u hooked him up with a girl when u luved him....he will respect u even more....





GUD LUCK!!!The guy I like asked me for advice about the girl he likes.. except its no me... What do i do?
Did you ever tell him how you feel?
Well say he ask what should i do my girlfriends mad at me for not calling her last night you should turn it around on you and be like IF I WAS YOUR GIRLFRIEND i would be a understanding that you were tired from football practice and had to catch up on studying so i wouldn't be mad at all i would be understanding
oooooh, that sucks, sorry, idk
If he really matters to you, you should tell him how you feel. Let him know that it's hurtful when he talks about this other girl to you. Good Luck.
I definitely understand this one. I'm always the friend, never the gilfriend. When this happened to me, I was a friend to the guy and gave him the best advice I could. Remember that what he feels for this girl is more than likely temporary, and when he get over her he will remember you as the sweet girl who helped him through everything. Good Luck!
wait it out. maybe he will realize he should be with you
In order to answer your question you left out a key issue that influences my answer: how old are you and the guy in question?





Intimacy and maturity are absolutely relevent in this instance to how you should handle the situation.





Without that information, I can only say that no matter how old you are, that you need to stay true to yourself. Firstly, since you say that listening to him speaking about this other girl ';hurts too much';, then you probably are more concerned with doing the best for him, but it's hard for you.





I can only tell you that we can never make someone like or love us, just as we can never like or love someone else for all the supposed ';right'; reasons. Even if you were to tell him your feelings for him you can't expect that his love light for you will suddenly switch to ';on';. The reality is that you can only stay true to yourself and that means either telling him or begging off the friendship, or shutting up when he talks about it and continue to be his friend. In the last scenario you are most likely dragging out your pain, however, Jane Austin would have something else to say about that.





Good luck....
awww what else can i say, it happens.
He just isn't into you. Find someone else to have a crush on. Don't worry, you'll forget about him soon enough.
i've been through that and just try ignore him for a while that's what i did
that happened to me but with a girl, just dont tell him anyhing but dont lie, just try to change the subject and if it presists just tell him the truth about her