I need some advice about an ex boyfriend.?

My boyfriend just dumped me at least an hour ago. He said he's having issues in his life that he needs to straighten out before he devotes himself to me.





We still love each other and I wish we could be together again, and he said there's a chance we might.





The only thing is if he asks me to take him back should I?


If you were in my shoes would you take him back?I need some advice about an ex boyfriend.?
Yes, I would take him back. He did nothing to ruin your relationship or take away your trust. Right now he's having a hard time in his life and he needs you to be there to support him by giving him his space.





I need some advice about an ex boyfriend.?
I think that he has expressed his needs and it would be great if you leave him go. That is the first part. You cannot keep him by force, so, it was right to let him go.


In order to think about a new encounter, then it is not only him who has an opinion. To destroy a relation it is enough if one of both wants it. To build a relation, they need to be both and agree.


So, in this moment he has a decition and that gives him advantage. You cannot do anything else than wathc him leave.


In the future, in few days, as he is making his life, try to do your own. Try to use that time to be a better person, better sister, whatever, but keep focus on YOU.


If he wants to come back, then UNTIL that day you will need your decitionnot now. That would be too exagerated.


You dont need a plan right now.


You only need a strategy.


Let your strategy be FOCUS ON YOURSELF.


Be better. in any field you want.


Give your love to yourself.


When the time comes (if it comes) and when he comes back looking for you, GIVE YOU the chance to decide until then. Do not press yourself now.


you are under stress and if you look desperetly a decition right now, you will not find the best answer, only the fastest one.


He wants a time, take it also for yourself.


Everty crisis has two doors: DANGER and OPPORTUNITY, which one do you preefer?



Look - I'm taking a big chance on losing ';player'; points, but take it from me - I've used that line many times in my life and it did allow me to sneak back in every now and then for a little more play time - don't fall for that one - you will feel used especially when you find out what he was doing ';while you were in the dumped mode';
No. I wouldn't take him back. He had his chance and he blew it. Don't waste you time waiting on a guy that has already dumped you. It is his loss. Honey - you are the prize. He missed his chance. Go find someone better. If you take him back he will dump you everytime he has stress in his life.
he must be lucky!





cuz when i had major problems with my personal life and didnt have the time for a girlfriend, i asked her for a break, all she said was '; all or nothing'; and dumped me afterwards.
yes take him back. Its obvious that he really cares for you enough that he would tell you this so you don't think he's trying to shut you out. so take him back
go get ur man